Showing posts with label help. Show all posts
Showing posts with label help. Show all posts

Wednesday, 13 August 2014

Anxiety attacks


By educating yourself about panic attacks, you can begin to gain control of the problem. You don’t have to live in fear and uncertainty any longer. I have had many panic attacks mostly at school or in class as these are my tough points so I have learnt quite quickly to cover them up so others in my class don't notice as that for me would be like the worst thing ever. Anyway hopefully this post will help you xoxo.


Firstly :

Recognize the Symptoms of a Panic Attack


Familiarizing yourself with panic attack symptoms can help you feel more in control when you get one. Once you start to realize you’re experiencing a panic attack and not a heart attack, allergic reaction, or some other serious illness, you can focus on ways to calm yourself down.
Being able to recognize a panic attack for what it is will help you decide what to do to cope with it. Although symptoms will be different for everybody, some of the most common ones and the ones I get are:
  • Irregular heart beat or faster heart beat
  • Dizziness and lightheadedness
  • Shortness of breath
  • Choking sensations and nausea, sometimes vomiting
  • Shaking and sweating
  • Fatigue and weakness
  • Chest pain and heartburn
  • Muscle spasms
  • Hot flashes or sudden chills
  • Tingling sensations in your hand, feet, and around your mouth
  • A fear that you’re going crazy
  • A fear that you might die or be seriously ill
  • Loss of appetite
  • Headaches

Secondly:

How to deal with them:

Relax your muscles and slow your breathing

If you feel an attack coming on, simple breathing and relaxation techniques can help you feel more in control. But don’t wait until you’re having a panic attack to use the techniques. Practicing them twice a day for just 10 minutes at a time may make your panic attacks less frequent and easier to deal with when they happen.

  1. Take in a slow, deep breath through your nose while counting to five. The hand on the chest should stay still, while the one over your diaphragm should raise with your breath. This is how you know the breath is deep enough. And focus on the word calm
  2. When you reach the count of five, let the breath out slowly (through your nose) at the same rate. As you breathe out slowly focus or say the word relax and imagine all your worries flow out with your breath.
  3. Relax your muscles. Find a comfortable position to sit in (or lie down).Close your eyes and begin to focus solely on your toes. Curl them under tightly for a count of five, squeezing the muscles together as hard as you can, then relax.Next, concentrate on your feet. Contract all of their muscles tightly for a count of five, then relax.Continue up your body, isolating each muscle group (calves, thighs, buttocks, stomach, chest, shoulders, neck, fingers, hands, and arms) all the way up to your face.By the time you contract and relax your face muscles, you should feel much calmer.


Hopefully this helped you understand what panic attacks are how I have been taught to deal with them and how you can too. I believe in you :)
I got some of my info from HERE so if you want to read more go to that website :)

Monday, 11 August 2014

Drawing

Everyone has something that helps calm them down and relax them it can be hard to find but once you do it can be really nice to just take some time out and do your relaxing thing. For me I found drawing really helped when I was feeling stressed or upset and I think I have gotten quite good at it!! For you it could be anything! Just I find it helps to find that thing and become great at it! :)
Here are some of mine they are pretty good I think...

Not my best but okay I love drawing to my imagination!!
 Just some quick ones 
 Koro (NZ plant) inspired that aren't actually anywhere near that big!!
 Eyes practicing close ups of facial features from different angles
 Sorry my computer is playing up and won't let me rotate pictures so yeah some are upside down just stand upside down..Haha
 Butterfly I love this one and am proud of myself!!
 Bird not sure what type.. just looked nice in the photo so I drew it
 Haha now this one is a sparrow. I think it's pretty good but I am not too happy on how the head turned out though...
Please comment I like feedback even if it is criticizing stuff... Just remember this is a helping blog for me and others so if you want to add tips fine :) but if you want to say they are all crap then please keep your opinions to yourself. Thanks xoxo

Saturday, 9 August 2014

Today I feel good about my body!!

I really love my body today I love how it looks nothing looks out of proportion I look thin I don't feel fat and I know that I weigh 46kg !! Its great!! Loving it! Tomorrow could be completely different so I am the most of it :) I am not scared to put on my last 4kg, I will just look more healthy. When I weighed 38-42 I was scared that I wouldn't be able to see my ribs or my spine or have a thigh gap any more but you know I have put on 8kg and I really can't see any difference except my hair is smoother and shines more I can finally grow my nails are they use to get a little long bt would be so weak they just snap and my skin looks nicer it isn't that kind of dull pale see through look to it any more and I can still see my rib and spine and I am almost at a healthy weight again!! I was scared I would look fat but you know if I can't tell 8kg I'm not going to be able to tell 4kg! And you feel better not sick and stronger too part of the reason is when you put on weight after not eating you are growing muscle as well not just putting on fat! So don't think all this weight you are putting on is going strait to your tummy or bum or thighs it honestly doesn't !! You will love it recovery is worth it I promise I still have my bad days where I want to give up but you have to make the most out of the good ones xoxo. You can do it and you will feel oh so good when you have :)

And if anyone wants to email me privately you can on teddybear3584637@gmail.com   I know cheesy but this email is only for my blog and helping you!! So don't be afraid to ask, I love helping people oh soo much!! It can be anonymous a fake name honestly I dont care!! Any questions feel more than happy to email me xoxo. I know lots of you live overseas so if I don't reply quickly sorry I probably will be asleep or just really busy haha but I will answer!! And I wont judge you for anything  I know how it feels to be judged and it is not nice. So yeah :)

Anyway good night xoxo :)

Thursday, 7 August 2014

Helping someone with depression

I know it is hard when one of your friends or family get depressed, I had NO idea what to do when my friend started cutting and her parents didn't know do I tell them do I not.. Well it turns out one of her other friends told her instead so I didn't need to make that decision but do tell a trusted adult it is the right thing to do.

What to do:
>>Relise that depression is a serious illness, don't joke about it or expect them to just snap out of it
>>Don't take it personally depression makes it difficult for the person to communicate when others and can say things they really don't mean even to loved ones
>>Hiding the problem won't make it go away, don't cover up the problem or lie for a friend who is depressed they need help. Doing this may stop the person from getting treatment
>> Talk to them tell them that you are worried about them and want to help

What you can say that helps:
>>I know it is hard but they way you are feeling will change
>>You are not alone I am here for you
>>When you feel you want to give up just tell yourself to hold on for that extra day, minute or hour whatever you can manage
>> You are important to me. Your life is important to me
>>Tell me what I can do to help you
>> I may not fully understand how you are feeling, But I care about you and want to help
They may just brush these off or disagree with you but stay positive, they may even say something that upsets or hurts you but just ignore it don't take it the wrong way in a way they can't help it, it is just the depression talking. They may be angry t you for telling someone they need help or for you wanting to help but when they are recovered and healthy trust me they will thank you for it.

What NOT to say:
>>It's all in your head
>>We all go through times like this
>> Look on the bright side
>>You have so much to live for why would you want to die?
>>I can't do anything to help
>>Just get over it
>> Just snap out of it
>> What's wrong with you?
>> Shouldn't you be better by now?
Avoid saying any of these or anything along the lines of these as they just make the situation a whole lot worse, they won't want your help and won't trust you 

It is hard but it will always get better :)

Sources : http://www.helpguide.org/mental/living_depressed_person.htm
               www.lifewithoutanorexia.com/  - this is my al time fav blog she is soo inspirational